Making Him Stick Around Forever
People want to find someone they can spend the rest of their life with. However, making that happen is not always easy. There are a few things you can do to make him stick around forever.
No one wants to be dumped, but sometimes breakups are inevitable. If you’re worried about your boyfriend leaving you, you can take steps to make him never want to leave your side.
By showing him how much you love and appreciate him, being supportive through thick and thin, and always being open and honest with each other, you can create a relationship that’s built to last.
Relationships can get a little too challenging to deal with once the initial newness wears off. After you see each other in your worst possible avatars and let complacency take over, keeping your boyfriend interested in you can become difficult, but it can be done with some work.
You need to do a few things to keep your boyfriend interested.
Get a new look
You get tired of the way you look, right? So why blame your man if he says the same? Do something dramatic and change the way you look. It could be a new hairstyle or a wardrobe change. All is fair when done to keep the others interested and notice you.
Get busy with your own life.
Are you hanging out with your boyfriend all the time? Well, that has to change. Be a little independent and get a life of your own. Enjoy your space, do things that excite you and have a busy life. That will ensure that you don’t bore him with anything to talk about.
Don’t step on his space.
Men prize their space like nothing else. So don’t step over that invisible line that he has drawn separating “yours” and “mine”. Please stay away from his stuff and never check his phone. Trust him enough to make him feel responsible towards you, and he will respect you and stay interested in you.
Understand how his mind works
Read the silent messages of protest that he sends out to you every time you blackmail him emotionally and make him do something he really doesn’t want to do. Forcing him to go to your mother’s house or dragging him shopping when all he wants to do is grab a few beers and relax at home is not what you should be doing.
Ignore him to excite him
Sometimes, ignoring can work wonders to keep a man interested in you. Make him chase you a bit, even if he is your boyfriend. Don’t make him feel so comfortable that he takes you for granted. So disconnect his calls occasionally or cancel on him citing unavoidable circumstances. He will remain interested in you as he has to compete with the other things occupying your life.
Get a little raunchy.
I’m not saying you should start sexting him 24/7, but a little bit of naughty talk can go a long way in keeping your guy interested. If you’ve been together for a while and things have started to feel a little stale, mix things up by sending him a sexy text message or initiating a playful game of truth or dare. This will help keep things fresh and exciting between the two of you and let your boyfriend know that you’re still interested in him.
Be there for him
There’s no magic answer to keeping a man around forever. Still, there are some things you can do to increase the likelihood of a happy and lasting relationship. First and foremost, be there for him. Guys need their partner to be a rock they can rely on, especially during tough times. Be supportive, listen to him when he talks, and don’t be afraid to offer your opinion.
In addition, make sure you keep things fresh and exciting; nobody wants to be in a stagnant relationship where things are always the same. Surprise him with weekend getaways or spontaneous sex sessions – just make sure it’s something both of you will enjoy. Lastly, try not to take your man for granted. Appreciate all he does for you and thank him often. Small gestures like this can mean the world to him.