Sometimes men cannot see what we want from them. If you are tired of being a trophy girlfriend and want a little more from your relationship, you’ll have to take extreme measures.
To make him see what you are truly worth and to make him want you, sometimes acting withdrawn yourself from him is the only option available. Here is how this will work.
He will miss your physical presence.
Initially, when you begin to distance yourself from him, he will not miss much. But when you cease to contact him and meet him, he will first miss your physical presence. He will miss seeing you, and soon talking to you will not be enough. When you are not there for him, he will feel like an empty shell.
He will miss holding you
A relationship is all about closeness. As you continue to distance yourself from him, he will begin to miss small things like holding you and feeling your breath on his skin. He will start thinking of how your hair smelled and how great you looked in that favourite dress of his. He will miss the sound of your voice. He will miss hearing you say his name, and how it would make him feel when he heard it. He will begin to think of how much he misses you and how empty his life is without you in it.
He will miss having fun with you
Sure, you had a good time together when you got together. But over time, that fun happens less and less. When you distance yourself from him, he will revisit the fun times that you had and will want to spend many more such happy times with you. He will miss the way you would look at him and smile when he came home from work. He will miss the way you would come up to him after a long day and say, “How was your day?” He will miss having sex with you.
He will miss the intimacy.
Intimacy is a part of every relationship. When you distance yourself from him, you become so unavailable that he begins to miss the intimacy that you shared in the good times. He will begin to realise what all he has been doing wrong and how he is responsible for pushing you away.
He will miss your quirks
When you begin to distance yourself from him, you also start behaving with him formally. The quirkiness that you displayed, which made you so spunky, is displayed in a much more reserved manner, making him feel more like a stranger in your life. He will soon begin to yearn for things to be the way they were and will start trying to impress you again.
He will miss the way you make him feel.
He will also begin to miss the way you made him feel. You made him feel special, needed, and desired, and now by creating the distance, all he feels is the coldness inside.
He will miss the closeness and your relationship
The bond that you shared made your relationship special. Distancing yourself will make him want you more because it will make him see what you are really worth. He will miss the way you made him feel. You made him feel special, needed, and desired, and now by creating the distance, all he feels is the coldness inside.