Getting Started with Online Dating


In the past decade, many people would use the phone, magazines or classified ads to meet their new partner. Nowadays, more and more people use online dating sites, which have become very popular.

Online dating sites have been used by many people to meet new people, form new relationships and maybe get married or in a long-term relationship.

Online Dating

Online dating is the most common way of meeting someone new nowadays. More and more people use online dating sites like Zoosk, OkCupid, Tinder,, PlentyOfFish and others to find a compatible partner.

Online dating is a big world out there and trying to find someone who is single, attractive and has similar interests as yourself can get discouraging rather quickly. Online dating sites are a popular option and one you might have thought about but not had the courage to jump into just yet.

How to Pick a Dating Site?

There are many online dating websites to pick from and you first want to choose one that is reputable and has good reviews from other users. Take the time to see what each site has to offer, read the fine print as well as look for those that have a large member base so that you have many to choose from for a potential date. Popular online dating websites are:

  • eHarmony
  • Match
  • Zoosk

After picking a site and when creating your personal profile, honesty is the key to getting real results.  You might be tempted to “alter” a few personal details but being truthful will only lead you to a more fulfilling dating experience. When you describe what you are wanting in a potential partner, be specific as to what your deal breakers are in the characteristics, morals and values you are seeking. 

When Should a Recently Divorced Man Date?

A divorce can cause so much emotional pain that a recently divorced man may be tempted to start dating immediately. However, he should go through a healthy restorative process before he does such a thing. If he dates before he completes the process, he runs the risk of hurting himself as well as some other people. A recently divorced man can use the following tips to discover the appropriate time to date:


Don’t Date If It Still Hurts

A good rule-of-thumb practice is to avoid dating if pain still exists when thinking about the ex-wife. Lingering pain is an indication that something still needs to be resolved.  

Don’t Date If Other Areas in Your Life Are Still Broken

Divorce can leave some long-lasting difficulties such as financial strain and trust issues. A man should not jump into a dating situation if he is still sorting through such problems. He should address the issues first or they will reappear.


Don’t Date If You Don’t Have the Time

Many divorced men keep their children when their wives leave, and they have to dedicate most of their lives to raising those children. Raising the children should be a top priority in such a case. Religious beliefs and obligations are additional reasons that a divorced man may want to put the brakes on dating after his divorce.

Every person is different, but 12 to 36 months is a viable time span for most people to heal enough to move on after a divorce. A divorced male should not rush and jump into dating before this time.


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