There is no surefire way to know if a man is serious about you, but there are a few things you can do to gauge his interest.
Pay attention to how often he compliments you, how much time he spends with you, and whether he takes initiative in pursuing relationships.
If a man is consistently showing signs that he cares about you, then it’s likely that he’s really interested in you. Check out more hints to find out if he is serious about you:
He will let his feelings be known
If he is serious about you, he will naturally let his feelings be known to you. He will not be able to hide them any longer and he knows that the quicker he tells you of his feelings the faster the relationship can develop between you if you too feel the same way. This is why you should be on the lookout for signs that tell you he cares.
He might start talking about the future
Only if he is serious about you, will he start talking about the future with you. A guy who is just playing the fool or using you will skirt around the subject of commitment. He will avoid the topic of marriage like the plague and will hate to encourage any talk of the future.
He will get more responsible
In an attempt to impress you and make you love him more he will try to show you that he is a good catch! To do this, he will become more serious and responsible. He will prove that he is a man of his word and well able to take care of you. He will do his best not to let you down.
He will start to become more possessive
If he is serious about you, he is automatically seeing you as “His woman” in his mind. This will make him behave in a manner that is possessive. He will start to resent other guys in your life and will try to get you to himself. Watch for gestures and actions that prove that he wants you for his own.
He will steer the conversation around commitment
There is no doubt that sooner or later he will steer the conversation and talk around to the subject of marriage and commitment. Unlike other men who avoid this topic, a man who is serious about his woman will not be able to wait to discuss the future with the woman he loves.
He will want to know what you think of marriage
Not only will he want to discuss the future with you if he is serious about you, but he will also want to know what you think of marriage. Don’t be surprised to be questioned by him about the type of wedding you would like, the type of engagement ring you would adore etc.
He will stop ogling other women
A sure way of knowing whether a man is serious about you or not is to watch him covertly when he does not know you are watching. Do you find him concentrated on you and you alone? Does he ogle other women? Does he flirt? If he gives you his wholehearted attention and love and does not bother about the other women no matter how gorgeous they are – he loves you and is serious about you!