Relationships can get a little too difficult to deal with once the initial newness wears off. After you see each other in your worst possible avatars and let complacency take over, keeping your boyfriend interested in you can become difficult, but it can be done with a bit of work.
Here are a few things you need to do to keep your boyfriend interested.
Get a new look
You get tired of the way you look, right? So why blame your man if he says the same? Do something dramatic and change the way you look. It could be a new hairstyle or a wardrobe change. All is fair when done to keep the others interested and notice you.
Get busy with your own life.
Are you hanging out with your boyfriend all the time? Well, that has to change. Be a little independent and get a life of your own. Enjoy your space, do things that excite you and have a busy life. That will ensure that you don’t bore him with anything to talk about.
Don’t step on his space.
Men prize their space like nothing else. So don’t step over that invisible line that he has drawn separating “yours” and “mine”. Please stay away from his stuff and never check his phone. Trust him enough to make him feel responsible towards you, and he will respect you and stay interested in you.
Understand how his mind works
Read the silent messages of protest that he sends out to you every time you blackmail him emotionally and make him do something he really doesn’t want to do. Forcing him to go to your mother’s house or dragging him shopping when all he wants to do is grab a few beers and relax at home is not what you should be doing.
Ignore him to excite him
Sometimes, ignoring can work wonders to keep a man interested in you. Make him chase you a bit, even if he is your boyfriend. Don’t make him feel so comfortable that he takes you for granted. So disconnect his calls occasionally or cancel on him citing unavoidable circumstances. He will remain interested in you as he has to compete with the other things occupying your life.
Get a little raunchy.
Sex is another way of keeping your boyfriend interested in you. Keep the action spicy and raunchy, and he will be hooked to you.
Be there for him
Make him feel like you will always be there for him and mean it. Be there to support him and to celebrate with him, and he will truly value you and remain interested in you.