Romance is in the air. But when your husband talks about marriage, he might not think about it in the same light as you do. Instead, he’s focused on the other big changes that are happening in your marriage.
If you and your husband are starting to notice a shift in your relationship, maybe it’s time to turn the focus on romance in your marriage.
This doesn’t mean that you and your husband need to immediately do a “Honeymoon!” vacation, although that’s an option. Instead, you might consider getting creative with your ideas and putting some thought into ways to keep the romance alive in your marriage.
What, exactly, is romance?
It’s a feeling or a bond that couples build over time and throughout their lives together. Romance is more than a “honeymoon” feeling. It’s an intense attraction between two people that build over time through shared experiences, mutual interests, and a shared sense of purpose and meaning. It’s the feeling you get when you’re connected on a spiritual, emotional, or physical level.
How to ask your husband to be more romantic?
There are three components to encouraging your husband to be more romantic. Guaranteed and romance-filled marriage. Like a tricycle, having only two wheels on the ground (two components of the romance formula), you are not going to get very far. And if you do get anywhere, it is going to be a real struggle.
Just tell them in a positive tone
Many women feel frustrated when their husbands fail to show any romantic feelings toward them. They may feel angry and bitter when they find that their husband is sexually involved with another woman. They may also be deeply disappointed that their husband has no regard for their feelings or their opinions.
If you feel that he should be more sexually loving toward you, you should tell him that your feeling is positive. In other words, it is a good thing that he cares for your needs, or your opinion. You need to emphasize to him that your desire is not your fault and that you simply want more intimacy with him.
Try to express how deeply you care for him and your desire to have more intimate moments with him.
Try to tell him how much you care for him, and how much you appreciate and respect his love for you. Tell him that you enjoy his company and want more of his presence in your life. Tell him that you enjoy the way he showers you with gifts, compliments you on your appearance, and even cooks your favourite dishes.
Also, express to him how much you respect the way he loves you, as well as how much you want him to respect you. Tell him that you find him to be a wonderful lover, and that he deserves to be loved and to have his love rewarded.
Make a vow to become closer to him
Make a solemn vow to each other, in front of witnesses, to become closer to each other. Tell him that you will be a better wife and lover to him if he does the same for you. Let him know that you can’t ask for more in a wife and lover than what he can give you. Tell him that you know he deserves a much more loving, affectionate, and intimate wife and lover than he currently has.
Also, you should let him know that you understand and respect his emotional life. In other words, you should tell him that you are not jealous or insecure when you see him flirt with or have sexual relationships with other women. You should tell him that you do not feel any jealousy when he looks at or talks about other women. You should also tell him that you respect his emotional life and that you understand why he may feel drawn to other women.
If you make this vow to your husband, he will want to try to do the same for you. In this manner, you may be able to help him to see that he deserves to be loved more, and that he has a desire to please you and to build a loving, affectionate, and intimate relationship with you.
Remind him how much you appreciate the way he cares for you
If you want to show your husband that you really care for him and appreciate the way he cares for you, you should tell him just how much you appreciate the way he treats you. Remind him of the special things he does to make you happy, and the special moments he shares with you.
If he is truly a loving, loving, and caring man, he will want to do more of these things for you. In this manner, he will most likely do more to please you and to show you his love.
Thank him for the good things he does for you
Make sure that you are very thankful to your husband. Let him know how much you appreciate and enjoy the way he cares for you. Tell him how much you appreciate him for his efforts to show his love for you. Tell him how much you appreciate his gifts and his efforts to please you.
You can also express to him that you love him for all the ways he shows his love for you and that he is a wonderful and loving husband. If he really is a loving, affectionate, and caring man, he will want to try to do more for you. In this manner, he will most likely do more to please you and to build a loving, affectionate, and intimate relationship with you.