It is complicated to keep relationships exciting sometimes. Well, actually, a lot of times. It gets boring and old, your partner seems to be a little more distant, and your sex life looks dull.
Relationships can be pretty dull at times. It can be hard to keep things exciting, especially when things start to feel routine.
Along with billions of other people out there in or out of relationships, here I present some tips for you to keep up with that romantic relationship without getting into a period of lassitude.
Communicate with your partner
Probably most of you agree with me on this. If you do not communicate, sometimes you’ll find out your mistakes much later, or you never get to find out what it is that you did wrong until after your relationship has ended. Your partner flew away for some other Person that would satisfy him/her better than you.
No matter where you are going, you should be connected with your significant other. It’s okay to be out of communication for some time. You’ll have some downtime together while you’re on your trip, so make sure you keep in touch and stay in the loop.
Communicating is critical in keeping your romantic relationship. The biggest problem with not communicating is that you often don’t learn from your mistakes until after your relationship ends. Sometimes, you never even find out what it is you did wrong until after your relationship has ended. Poor communication can quickly destroy a relationship. If you’re not willing to communicate your feelings and problems, you will likely end up hurt.
Romantic Talk: Talk Sexy
We all know that girls easily fall for romantic words murmured close to the ear, her lover’s breath gently skimming along her ear lobe, whispering. It is not only women that get excited and feel loved by the romantic talk. Also, men get aroused by their partner’s sexy words if she knows exactly how to handle the talk.
Men and women can both be turned on by words spoken romantically. Close to the ear and with a gentle breath on the ear lobe can significantly stimulate either gender. Whispering can also be very sensual for both men and women.
Keep your lover close
Most people have a hard time keeping their partners close when they’re apart. So when you’re feeling the distance, plan a phone call, a video call, or a Skype session. And as you plan these calls, think about the things you will talk about. What would make your partner feel close? Is there something you did that made your partner smile, hug you, or feel more connected?
Biggest mistakes you make
Most of the time, one does not know what they are good at or even bad at in bed. It is not like you can talk to other people openly about it all the time or let other people examine you and criticize or compliment you.
It’s not always easy to open up about your feelings and anxieties to the people around you, especially if you’re not used to doing so. So it’s probably not the best idea to constantly allow others to scrutinize and comment on your every move.
Only your partner knows, and if your partner does not tell you what it is that you are doing wrong? What would be some common mistakes that people tend to make and do not realize would be repulsive in bed? What would be some common mistakes that people tend to make and do not realize that would be considered sexual assault?
Be a good listener
So many people get annoyed when their partner starts telling them a story, and there are times when your partner starts telling you a story. But if you listen attentively, you’ll be surprised at how much of a story you can get out of your partner.
If your partner tells you about a time they were caught shoplifting, and you just sit there and nod, you’ll have an awkward moment. Instead, listen closely, and ask questions that will help them tell you more. You can even tell a story in return, and your partner will be more inclined to listen.