How Sexual Past Can Affect Relationship?
When it comes to dating, the last thing your partner wants to think about is another woman he’s been involved with. If he imagines you having a sexual relationship with someone else, it may drive him insane.
If so, do you have a tumultuous sexual past that includes a variety of relationships? So, if that’s the case, it’ll be difficult for your partner to handle. But he’ll have to come to terms with it. Don’t you dare allow someone else to hold your history against you and hurl it in your face? Unless it’s recent history, leave it in the past tense and move on.
He Should Accept It
He has to accept you for who you really are. Being with him is a choice he made, therefore he has to come to terms with you for who you are. And this has enormous implications. It doesn’t imply that he needs to approve of your sexual past, but it does mean that he cannot hold it against you. It’s totally out of character for him to express interest in you and then start interrogating you about trivial things from your history.
It’s a sign that he wants to date you if he brings about your pastel appearance all the time. Tell him he has two options:
Either you two split up or you two remain together…but he is forbidden from bringing up your sexual history again. Never. Not even when you and your partner are at each other’s throats.
Learn from your errors and move forward Even if you have a few brief thrills from sex or hooking up, the damage to your reputation and self-esteem is long-lasting. Changing your “free loving” habits is the proper thing to do, and that’s what really counts. It’s also possible that your guy is too concerned about your previous relationships, in which case you may want to reconsider dating someone who is so pious and judgmental of your sexuality.