Does He Really Love You, or Is He Using You?

Are you getting too much of something you want from your man and not enough of what you really need? Does he really love you? Is he using you?

I’ll discuss in detail what you need to know about having your partner’s love and not being used and whether your love is really a gift or a tool to control you.

How is he using you?

In a relationship, you want to feel loved, supported, and respected. However, sometimes you can end up feeling used, manipulated, and controlled. If you’re wondering whether your partner is using you, here are some signs to look out for:

• He always expects you to do things for them, but they never do anything for you in return.
• He regularly threatens to break up with you unless you do what they want.
• He never takes any responsibility for their actions and always blames you for everything.
• He is always trying to control you and tell you what to do.
• Your partner never shows any appreciation for anything you do for them.
• You always feel like you’re walking on eggshells around your partner and you’re always worried about making them angry.
• Your partner is always talking about themselves and they never show any interest in you or your life.
• All of your partner’s friends are also using you in some way.
• You always feel like you’re being used by your partner and you’re not sure how to get out of the situation.

If any of this sounds familiar, then it’s likely that your partner is using you in the relationship. This is not a healthy or happy situation to be in, and it’s important to get out of it as soon as possible. Talk to your partner about your concerns and try to work on creating a more balanced and healthy relationship. If your partner is unwilling to change, then you might need to consider ending the relationship.

How do you determine whether or not he really loves you?

When it comes to relationships, it’s not always easy to tell if someone is really in love with you, or if they’re just using you for their own gain. If you’re wondering whether your partner really loves you, or if they’re just using you, here are a few things to look out for:

They’re always taking, but never giving.

If your partner is always taking from the relationship but never giving anything back, it’s a sure sign that they’re not really in love with you. A healthy relationship is built on give and take, so if one person is always taking and the other is always giving, it’s not going to work out in the long run.

They’re always talking about themselves.

If your partner is always talking about themselves, it’s another sign that they’re not really in love with you. A healthy relationship is built on communication, and that means that both partners need to be interested in each other’s lives. If one person is only interested in talking about themselves, it’s not going to be a very satisfying relationship.

They’re always making excuses.

If your partner is always making excuses for their behaviour, it’s a sign that they’re not really in love with you. A healthy relationship is built on trust, which means that both partners must be honest with each other. If one person is constantly making excuses, it’s a sign that they’re not being honest about their feelings or behaviour.

They’re never there for you.

If your partner is never there for you when you need them, it’s a sign that they’re not really in love with you. A healthy relationship is built on support, and that means that both partners need to be there for each other when times are tough. If one person is always absent when you need them, it’s a sign that they’re not as invested in the relationship as they should be.

They’re always trying to control you.

If your partner is always trying to control you, it’s a sign that they’re not really in love with you. A healthy relationship is built on respect, and that means that both partners need to give each other the space to be themselves. If one person is always trying to control the other, it’s a sign that they’re not respecting their partner’s autonomy.

If you’re seeing any of these signs in your relationship, it’s a good indication that your partner is not really in love with you. If you’re in a relationship with someone who is only interested in taking from you, it’s time to move on.