Valentine’s Day can feel like a double-edged sword when you’re in a long-distance relationship. On one hand, it’s the perfect excuse to shower your partner with love. On the other hand, the empty chair across the table and the miles between you can make the day sting a little more than usual.
Nobody wants to miss this chance. People all over the world start to plan for the day a few days before. Seeing all the preparation amongst friends, those who are in long-distance relationships might feel a little low. So cheer up the long-distance lovers, here are a few special things you can do to tell your lover how much you love them and celebrate.
As with any day that is special to you, there is no right or wrong way to celebrate in a long-distance relationship. The important thing is that you make it memorable and something you’ll both look back on.
Here are some Valentine’s Day ideas to do with your loved one in a long-distance relationship:
1. Send him or her flowers or a souvenir
Since you are not going to celebrate Valentine’s Day together, there has to be something that reminds you of your lover, who misses you equally.
Early morning, when you receive or send something adorable, it will automatically start the day with a smile and loads of affection showering on you.
2. Synchronise a Movie or Show Night
Nothing beats reacting to the same scene at the exact same moment. Use Teleparty (formerly Netflix Party), Scener, or Metastream to watch together while video chatting. Pick a romantic classic, a new release, or the movie from your first date.
Make it special: Prepare matching snacks (send a popcorn kit or candy box in advance) and pause every 20–30 minutes to talk about your favourite parts. Dim the lights, wear cozy matching hoodies, and cuddle your pillows. Many couples say this is their go-to because it feels effortless yet intimate.
3. Be connected all day
Well, if you’re in a long-distance relationship, then you already know that when Valentine’s Day rolls around, you want to give your partner a day where you can feel connected.
You want to make them feel loved, appreciated, and maybe even a little bit spoiled.
What more romantic can it be when you are talking to each other all day, whether it is through texts or even over the phone or a video chat, the best way? Eat together, watch the same film and a lot more without letting the distance disturb the flow of love.
4. Send a Surprise Care Package or “Open When” Box
Physical gifts still hit differently when you’re far apart. Fill a box with their favourite snacks, a hoodie sprayed with your cologne/perfume, handwritten notes, a small plant, fuzzy socks, or a custom photo book. Add “Open When…” envelopes: “Open when you miss me,” “Open when you need a laugh,” etc.
Include a Bluetooth photo frame that you can update remotely with new pictures throughout the day. Services like Lovebox or modern care-package companies make this ridiculously easy and beautiful.
5. Promise a pre-plan date
As you could not be together this Valentine’s Day, plan out a date in future or the next time you meet. Discuss it and keep in mind all the points you need to include. This shows how responsible you are for their happiness and wishes.
6. Play Online Games Together
Laughter is the best medicine for missing someone. Choose from Jackbox games, Board Game Arena, Tabletop Simulator, or couples-specific apps like “We’re Not Really Strangers” or “36 Questions to Fall in Love.” Even a simple game of online Scrabble or chess works.
Romantic twist: Play strip trivia (clothes optional), or create your own couples quiz about your relationship history. Winners get to choose the next date idea.
7. Have a Virtual Spa or Self-Care Night
Pamper each other from afar. Send matching face masks, bath bombs, massage oils, or candles. Light the same scented candle, play relaxing music, and do your skincare or a guided meditation together on video.
Fun variation: Give each other “virtual massages” by describing what you’d do, or take turns reading a romantic book chapter while the other relaxes.
8. Plan (or Surprise) Your Next Reunion
Nothing says “I’m yours” like looking forward to being together again. Spend the evening planning your next visit—book flights, research a romantic getaway, or even just set a countdown calendar. If the budget allows, surprise them with a plane ticket or a weekend at a midpoint city.
Budget-friendly version: Create a shared Pinterest board titled “Our Next Chapter” and fill it with date ideas, hotel inspo, and future dreams.
Conclusion
Valentine’s Day in a long-distance relationship isn’t about pretending the miles don’t exist—it’s about proving they don’t matter as much as your commitment does. Pick the ideas that feel most “you.” The ones that will make your partner smile, laugh, or tear up when they realise how much thought you put in.
To have a long-distance relationship is not something to be sad about. Be happy your loved one is there in your heart and is still taking care of all your wishes, in spite of not being around. This union has its own beauty. So cherish it and express your love and care most amazingly. Have patience and wait for the time you will be together to celebrate. Each day is special if you have your loved one with you.
