Whether you’ve just started dating or have been together for a while, there’s always something new to learn about your partner. Here are five ways that you can impress your new lover:
If you are a guy:
People always say that being polite costs nothing. Every lover wants their new flame to treat them with respect and love. Politeness is an easy way to show respect and interest that is also socially acceptable. It’s also a very straightforward way to woo someone, but it’s still wooing, and it could work wonders. Politeness still has the feel of old-fashioned chivalry and romantic relationships, and who can say no to being treated like the queen of someone’s world?
Try to flirt.
This is where you can show how passionate, funny, and maybe even a little sneaky you can be. Flirting is exciting, fun, and hot. So you don’t end up in the “boring lover” category, you can show that you have some sharper edges. When you fall in love, you get excited, take risks, and play with fire. You can show your dark side through flirting.
Think about her.
When you have someone in mind, you are thinking about them, you know what’s going on for them, and you are taking that into account. Mindfulness is often seen as a trait of women, but men can also learn it, even if it takes some work. Being on the receiving end of someone’s mindfulness is almost magical, like feeling really known and deeply connected.
Feel good about how you look.
Nothing is worse than a new partner whose body shows signs of neglect and laziness from years past. Hopefully, you took care of your body before you met your new partner and that care shows. Don’t try to be Mr Universe. Just do the best you can with what you have. Your partner will give you a perfect score of ten for being happy with your body, taking care of it, and being proud of what you have. Hope you can say the same thing about your belly as you can about your favourite part.
Own your power.
This section is about being proud to be a man. I hope he’s kind and thoughtful, but he’s still a man. Straighten up and take charge. You don’t need to be a hero, but you can’t be a coward. After all, I’m sure your new partner will show you some love too.
If you’re a girl:
Have fun and laugh!
Leave your worries behind for once and just enjoy the ride. Who knows, maybe by tomorrow it will all be over, but today is what it is. Laughing makes you feel better and spreads happiness. People become close when they laugh and have fun with each other. In the end, that’s how life is when it’s really good. And your new lover won’t have any doubt that you’re having fun with him.
Enjoy your body.
Men are visual beings. Watching a woman feel comfortable and sensual in her own skin turns them on a lot. Feel free to find your inner temptress and show it off. Enjoy the feelings your body gives you every step of the way, and he might get so excited that he gives you some extras.
Let him protect you.
Men like to feel useful and needed. Giving them a job gives them a sense of security and a place in your life. Most men do want to protect their partners, and giving them a chance to do so will make them feel good about themselves. Also, don’t forget that many men feel useless in today’s world, where women can do everything for themselves. If you let him save you, he’ll show you his best side.
Even though you are just getting started, don’t give up your independence. Most men don’t like it when a woman is shy and clingy because it makes them feel trapped. Keep being yourself, with your own life, friends, interests, and goals. After all, it’s not surprising that he might stop trying if you just blend into his life like old furniture.
Value him as he is.
Having men around is very helpful. They can reach places you can’t, open things you can’t, fix things you can’t, deal with things you don’t want to deal with, make money, and buy you all kinds of things. Just remember that he is still a person and not just your handyman. Spend some time getting to know him well. Find out what he wants to do with his life and what it means to him to be a man. Men are good at hiding who they really are, but that doesn’t mean they never feel lonely.