Does he look like your dream guy? If there is a flush on your cheeks and you are nodding your head in a good way, then girl, you are certainly seeking to set up dates with other people.
Your appetite for a second date would be whetted after only one meeting.
To find a man, you have first to find a man and then find a man who finds you to be the woman he wants to be with. This usually begins with an initial attraction. Sometimes that attraction can grow into more.
This is why a second date is key to long-term success, not just meeting someone but also finding the right person. And while sometimes the second date gets harder than the first, we’re here to help you learn the right way to approach second dates.
Simply said, if you follow these steps, you will be able to win over the heart of your boyfriend on the very first date, which will undoubtedly motivate him to ask you out on a second date.
HOW TO GET A SECOND DATE
Make the first date memorable
Men aren’t perfect on first dates, so just know that. If you’re trying to set yourself up for a second date with a man, make sure that your first date doesn’t leave you wondering what went wrong. If you want to get another second date with a guy, you have to make the first date worth it. This is the point where you need to show a guy how you are as a person by showing him who you are. If he is a good date, he will want to see you again.
Give him encouragement
Whether you’re interested in someone for the right reasons or you just like the idea of someone, you should definitely tell him. You don’t have to force yourself to say “I’m interested,” but a genuine reaction, like “hmmm” or “I was wondering what you were up to tonight” can tell him that you’re interested.
It’s important to get a positive reaction because it tells the man that you’re confident in what you are. If he hears negative feedback about you or says something discouraging, he will assume that he wasn’t good enough for you and move on.
Before you leave ways, you should say something like, “I want to thank you for a wonderful evening.” If you leave a man with some obvious indicator that you’re interested in him, the likelihood of him asking you out again is significantly increased.
Know when to hold your tongue and when to bite it.
We live in a world that encourages people to tell everyone everything, and doing so is now considered acceptable. However, on first dates, men are especially sensitive to a few things that truly turn them off and make them uncomfortable. Some examples of such topics are anything related to personal cleanliness, the reasons why your most recent relationship did not work out, your beliefs on commitment, and any current bodily hang-ups.
Put off going to bed for the time being.
It’s true that he’s trying to pick you up, but the vast majority of males would prefer you make them wait until after the initial encounter. It’s a well-known fact that men like being tested, so why not give them something to work towards?
Make him work around you
It is natural for you to want to meet him again as soon as possible, but you shouldn’t make yourself always accessible for lengthy texting conversations with him. It shows that you have a life outside of this prospective relationship, which is something that men find attractive in women.
So Good luck, ladies! I hope you have a more hot date next time.