When we say that a man has stopped being romantic, we often mean that he stopped being romantic with his wife or his girlfriend. But, what does it mean to be romantic?
To be romantic means to have the right mood, the right attitude, and the right behaviour. It means that you are always in a good mood, so your behaviour will be pleasant and friendly, giving and kind. It means that you can find the right place, at the right time, and with the right woman to be intimate.
What Stops Romance?
It seems that one of the things we often talk about is men not being romantic. Many women get a hard time when it comes to their boyfriends, and even the ones who have the best guys out there end up being the odd couple.
Well, one of the things that drives some men crazy is that it’s a very difficult thing for them to deal with. And, if they are too open with their feelings, women won’t respond to them. But, even with good men, it’s hard to get them to be romantic.
Is not it wonderful when a man is romantic? He’s so creative and full of surprises, and it just feels so good to be loved and romanced by a man that you care about and love a lot too.
Unfortunately, when you’ve been in a stable relationship for some time, you may notice your man becoming less and less romantic. Why does this happen? What is really happening? You know he loves you, but then why is he not doing the things that make your heart flutter and sing anymore?
Why do men stop being romantic?
Some may think that the reason why men stop being romantic is simply that he has run out of romantic ideas. While this is a valid and logical explanation, you know that if he wanted to plan a romantic date for you, he would find a way.
So while being ‘out of ideas’ is a justifiable reason, it does not help you get to the root of the matter. And even if you buy him a book filled with romantic date ideas, if he’s not inspired, he’s not going to use them, and you’ll feel even more frustrated.
So the largest reason why men stop being romantic is that they has grown extremely comfortable in their relationship, and he’s simply taking the easy way out because he can. He knows you are not going to leave him just because he’s not being romantic. So instead of going through all the trouble of planning and coming up with some romantic idea, he is just going to sit on the couch and watch some TV instead.
You’ve played a part in this because you’ve let your man become lazy. You probably would not do it on purpose. In fact, you probably did all you could to make his life easier, just to show him how much you love him. Unfortunately, by taking such good care of him, you took his job of being your romantic hero and prince away from him.
What are the Harms of a Lack of Romance in Marriage?
A lack of romance within a marriage can have serious consequences. Over time, the intimacy and connection that once defined the relationship can begin to fade away. This can lead to feelings of loneliness, resentment, and even betrayal.
Without romance, marriages can become stagnant and unfulfilling. Couples may start to grow apart and lose sight of why they fell in love in the first place. This can eventually lead to divorce. A lack of romance doesn’t just impact the couple, but also their children. Seeing their parents unhappy can cause them to feel insecure and anxious. It can also damage their view of relationships and make it harder for them to find love themselves when they’re older.
How to Make Your Man Romantic Again?
If you want to make your man romantic again, it’s important to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Find ways to surprise and delight your man, and make sure to show him how much you appreciate him. Plan special dates and evenings together, and make sure to tell him how much you love him. With a little effort, you can keep the romance alive in your relationship and make your man feel loved and appreciated.
So, the only way to get his romantic juices flowing again is to give him some incentives to do so. You do this by doing less for him and making him feel good when he does small things for you. Instead of doing things for him in return, just tell him how much you appreciate what he’s done.
Men love being appreciated, and while it will take some time, their romantic side will return. Whatever you do, please do not nag him.
It’s not uncommon for the romance to fizzle out a bit after you’ve been with your man for a while. But that doesn’t mean you have to settle for a lacklustre relationship! If you want to make your man romantic again, there are a few things you can do.
First, try being more romantic yourself. Plan special dates, write love notes, or do something unexpected and sweet. This will remind your man of how good it feels to be loved, and he’ll likely start reciprocating those gestures.
Another thing you can do is to ask your man directly what would make him feel more loved and romantic. Sometimes they just need a little prompting! Be open to trying new things together and being more spontaneous. Finally, make sure you’re showing appreciation for the things your man does that are already romantic.